I’m not going to have sex with my other partner for the next month or so

Dedeker: Sometimes it’s not always obvious upfront. I think when people make agreements with partners that they end up not being able to keep, often it’s not a very obvious thing in the front of their brain right away of, „Oh, this isn’t something I can do, and so I’m just going to lie and say that I can.“ I think for some people it is, but for many people, I think they do feel positive, like, „Oh yes, I can agree to that. I can totally agree with that. That makes sense.“

Lori Beth Bisbey says that in non-monogamous relationships, cheating is less about the activity, and more about violating the trust you’ve built up in your relationship

Dedeker: Yes. Then they’re actually in the situation like, „Oh gosh, well actually I probably shouldn’t have agreed to that. That’s really hard for me to maintain. Maybe it’ll be easier for me to just break that agreement, but not be honest about it.“ I could see that also being a situation.

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