You want more control the situation and sometimes love is not in a controlled environment

Meeting people is a lot of gathering new information in having to sort through a bunch of stuff, and that’s always been very exhausting and so I’ve been the kind of guy who generally just tries to date as little as possible and just get into a relationship with maybe the first person that I go on a date with food doesn’t annoy me so. You’re not like a like a serial dater type. I’m no, not at all. So that’s what I’ve been trying to work toward getting more toward the go on several coffee dates. You know meet a lot of people. Have you know broaden the net talk to people that I might not normally think are my cup of tea and I think a lot of people do that.

Naturally I’ve heard of people who just like they’re on dates all the time. Time and maybe they need to go the opposite direction, and maybe you know limit things down a little bit, but for me I need to go from this very narrow field that I’m always looking at and broaden it outwards, but I guess when you were talking about frank earlier with blind spots, your blind spot as a as a J. Out there right and you’re ’cause. So might be harder that way. You know yours I do not. I’ve never actually taken the test but I’m just guessing what I am, and I’ll take the test afterwards just to see I’ve taken the tests a long time ago and I don’t remember I would say probably a p in the situation more perceiving because I don’t. Continue reading →